Tuesday, January 15, 2008

Mommy.. I want a baby

This little boy is so sweet. He loved giving Jayce cuddles and kisses and even told me that he wanted a baby. He's going to make such a wonderful big brother some day!
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Monday, January 14, 2008

New Routines

As much as I would like to only write positive things in this blog, I feel as though I should write down some concerning things as well. Aethan's Dad went back to his home in Montana last week. I don't think Aethan understands. His last visit a week ago seemed uneventful to him and he just got in the car like normal, oblivious to the fact that he won't be seeing his Dad for quite a while. I know he will adjust like he always does, but I can't help but think there may be some confusion and emotions that he doesn't understand. I have a fantastic support system here, with many loving arms open for the little angel, but I would've liked for it to have worked out differently. I do hope as well that his Dad uses this blog to read about the exciting things that happen to him.

Don't Listen to What They Say

You hear these horror stories all the time among parents of autistic children. Potty training, vacations, they're a nightmare. I was so concerned about Aethan and potty training. But, as usual, he suprised me. It only took 3 weeks for him to completely get rid of his diapers. And before his 4th birthday! He just decided that he was o.k. with the toilet and even washes his hands after every trip.

I was even more concerned taking him on a 24 hour car ride to Wichita only 2 weeks out of diapers, because I can't explain to him that even though you have to go, you have to try so we can drive 3 hours without stopping. Luckily, his fascination with numbers kicked in and he was happy to try at every rest stop, considering he got to count the amount of toilets in each one. The trip was so painless... actually pleasent.

He blended in so well with the large amount of people going in and out of my Grandma and Grandpa's house in Wichita. For someone who's supposed to be so resistant to change, he sure is adaptable!